Sexual assault is perhaps one of the most under-reported crimes. Though statistics vary, estimates are that between one-in-four and one-in-six women will be the victim of a sexual assault or attempted sexual assault. The reasons for non reporting vary from fear and embarrassment to self blame for being in a susceptible setting, especially in a situation of date or acquaintance rape. In the situation of a “stranger” assault, victims may find it easier to “strike back” by reporting the assault and prosecuting it. In a case of acquaintance rape, the emotional trauma of an assault is multiplied by the knowledge that the offender is someone who was trusted, related and perhaps even loved.
Date rape and the use of "date rape drugs" is especially common among teens and young adults, who make up the bulk of college students. Though females comprise the bulk of sexual assault victims, males account for approximately ten percent of victims. It is important that you be aware of and avoid risks that could lead to sexual assaults.
A few safety tips to keep in mind are:
- Be aware of your surroundings - pay attention to who may be walking near you or following you. If something or someone makes you feel uncomfortable, go with your gut. Drive or move to a well lighted public location or a police station or call someone for help.
- Avoid being alone in unfamiliar places, especially at night.
- Enroll in a personal safety course such as RAD (Rape Aggression Defense) available through Campus Police.
- In acquaintance or dating situations, remain in public or group settings until the person has earned your trust.
- Set clear boundaries regarding what is and is not acceptable behavior - do not allow yourself to be pressured into going beyond those boundaries. If you feel pressured or strong armed, clearly and loudly state that it is unacceptable and leave the area.
- Do not allow yourself to become intoxicated, especially if you are not well acquainted with those with whom you are drinking.
- Never leave a drink or food unattended in a bar or at a party. If you do leave it unattended or out of your sight, pour it out and get a fresh one. Date rape drugs can quickly be put into a drink without detection.
- If you are a victim of a sexual assault, JJCPD encourages you to:
- get to safety as soon as possible
- do not wash or change clothes (this could destroy crucial evidence
needed, if you wish to prosecute the offender).
- obtain medical help at a hospital or medical facility (hospital personnel are trained in dealing with victims in a sensitive manner and in collection of evidence for possible future use in court).
- report the assault to JJCPD or to the local police department as soon as possible (it will be your decision whether or not you choose to pursue the matter in court. However, if evidence is not properly collected immediately, it may prevent any future prosecution).
For more information on sexual assault and date rape, please refer to these related links: